and so spot on you were x I was up in arms inside and i could of given in to it and went in for the battle. I have learned that this does ME more harm than good. My tummy feelings have gone now I acted calm acted "as if" and it calmed me. But you are sooohhh right I felt protective towards my little forum.... anger would of gotten me no where. some may view this as denial maybe i see it at transforming.

sue

Well, SOME dont see that as denial. As long as you are aware of it that you were angry there is no Denial is there?


But I just thought I point it out incase you forgot that you were angry.
Nothing better to do.

"You can please some of the people some of the time, but not all of the people all of the time." I am glad that the videos have gone, because they do slow down the process, but in general I find this site to warm and welcoming.

thanks Gilly xxxxxxxx

I am sure she will just ignore you now.
Or just write a a little email something like OK.

No I got quite a nasty one back hehe pastmember if your interested ill pm it you. just for the giggle.

Well and there was me thinking I was the only one nasty around here.
Yes please could you PM it to me

Must be the nasty part of me that makes me giggle maybe? U knew it was in there somewhere lurking.............

Hmm...
dont know

i thought u wanted to send me the mail?

sorry got side tracked go do it now

Hi Sue, I think the only observation I would make is that there are so many different topics e.g. ask a counsellor, journals, virtual bar, that I find myself just dipping into one or two favourties of mine.

Perhaps that means I might miss something really interesting in another one which would be a shame.

Other than that the site is great and surely there is something here to please everyone.

Keep up the good work and thank you.

Martin

I read the email Sue and I dont find it nasty but I find her to be not veery computer literate and blaming it onto others. She is not taking responsibility for being a stupid twat. Ooops, did I just say that?

I find have less chance of missing posts if when i first come in i clik on the link in the right above saying posts since last visit then you can go through them one by one.

Thanks for your comments Martin was thinking about trimming it down a bit. I do like contructive critism

pastmember

Are you trying to tell me something Sue? I cant hear you you have got a big plaster across your mouth!!!

By the way, I am not sure what difference it will make if you shorten the number of forums. There will still be the same amount of posts posted the only difference is that it will be in a different forum. An dthe posts will be all over the place without order. Say you want to talkl about your dreams and the dream forum is gone, you will post it maybe in the general chat. The dream forum will be gone but the post will still be there and most importantly, you will still need to click on it to read it.

tried that not good

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I am using internet explorer version 6 might just be a glitch in the system